I just saw the worst piece of advice, ever, on how to manage your relationship with your man. It was " Be aloof. It will make him wonder what your up to." Not only is this bad advice, it is destructive. It's almost as bad as," Be seen with other men. It will make him jealous." No it won't. It will convince him that you're a loose woman, and he's better off without you. I know a young couple who are having marital problems, and I am beginning to believe that she got some of this bad advice,and has been flaunting herself with other men to the hilt! What she doesn't understand is, there isn't a jealous bone in her husband's body. He just wants her to be happy. By this silly display, she is proving only one thing to him, she is not happy with just one man. She needs more. That cannot be what she really wants, because when you see them together, it is obvious that they still love one another. But, she seems to have forgotten what it is, He wants. She knows what it is, if only she would do it for him. He wants her to dress nice, bathe regularly, fix her hair so it's pretty, and he wants her to act like a lady, and smell good. Is that so difficult? If you love someone, is that too much to ask? Apparently. The last I heard, they will be getting a divorce. And the saddest part is, he would take her back in a heartbeat, if only she would show up, looking pretty, dressed up, and smelling good, and ask for another chance. If you want to know how to handle your man, you might just try asking him, instead of everyone else.
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